The Language of Love




We've been taught, during our lecture on family case analysis, that there are five love languages, none better, superior or more effective way of showing your affection.  She said we must figure out the love languages of the people around us so we understand them better.  Makes sense.

1.  Public Display of Affection
2.  Spending Time
3.  Gift Giving
4.  Words of Affirmation
5.  Acts of Service

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